fat acceptance is great and all but stop with this bullshit about how people are “trained” to think thin girls are more beautiful
they’re not trained into anything you fucking moron
people find attractive what people find attractive. would you say that men who find fat girls…
If the media did not exist most men would be going after fat women. Not that we fat people WANT them anyway (I am done with men) but there is nothing inherently sexy about thin women.
The reason men aren’t trained to find fat women attractive is that nobody has ever told them it’s OK to find us attractive. In fact men have been told again and again that it’s WRONG or even illegal to have sex with a fat woman (a man instigating sex with any woman is sexual assault which is illegal, but that’s not what I’m referring to).
Any man who finds a thin woman attractive is actively oppressing fat women. End. Of. Story.
Sorry, but no. There are plenty of men attracted to fat women, and plenty of men attracted to thin women. Both of them are attractive!!!! It is okay to find either one attractive!!!! It doesn’t matter!!
It’s true that the media has encouraged people to be more attracted to thin women by advertising thin women aplenty. But that doesn’t prevent people from being attracted to fat women. They aren’t told it is WRONG to be attracted to fat women….for god’s sake, if anything, it’s gay people who are told every day by churches and conservatives that it’s a SIN for them to be alive. They’re still gay anyways, and yes it sucks that that happens. But no one’s doing that about fat people.
It goes both ways, honey. If you think being attracted to a thin person oppresses fat people, then it’s the same thing if you’re attracted to a fat person, you’re oppressing thin people.
I’m actually not attracted to fat men. I’m only attracted to thin ripped guys so one of the reasons I am so fucking triggered every day is that the thin ripped guys do not find people like me attractive because they have been brainwashed, leaving me to choose between fat guys and SORRY but I do not want to settle.
A few weeks ago my japanese class did a gift exchange with our penpal class in japan and their box of stuff came in today. All of the gifts had really cute messages on yellow notes. This one was my favorite..